The people who need defending on principle are not always the ones you would actually want to defend. They may not be the worthiest people, or the nicest or the wittiest. Often they are mediocre or gross or self-aggrandizing. Think of Larry Flynt, the publisher of Hustler. Or Karen Finley, the performance artist best known for smearing her body with chocolate. Just because they are under siege legally doesn't mean they are worth the trouble of defending on other grounds. Consider two photographers who have recently been called child pornographers. There is David Hamilton, whose book ''Age of Innocence'' Arum Press is full of simpering, soft-focus pictures of naked girls with budding breasts, paired with quotations about their forthcoming deflowering. After Mr.
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And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband. What are the strategies for not taking the absence personally I mentioned above that I'm cognizant of my SO's constraints, but it's definitely hard I have been married to an Interventional Radiologist 30 yrs.